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St. Louis Jewish Light

A nonprofit, independent news source to inform, inspire, educate and connect the St. Louis Jewish community.

St. Louis Jewish Light

Notes from a Jewish mother

Amy Fenster Brown and Bill Motchan, celebrating their graduations from everything.

There are notes. A Jewish mother wrote them.

Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished June 8, 2026

  It’s graduation party season. Even if you don’t have a graduate in your home this year, your friends and relatives likely do. It’s so much fun to celebrate the graduate and think about the exciting, limitless future they have ahead of...

You’re probably better at loving other people than yourself

You’re probably better at loving other people than yourself

Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished April 19, 2026

  Just days ago, I blew out candles on a cake celebrating my latest trip around the sun. Birthdays are fun, especially if you love attention. You get calls and texts from family and friends, social media posts from random acquaintances, maybe...

The life lesson hiding inside a Reese’s commercial

The life lesson hiding inside a Reese’s commercial

Amy Fenster BrownPublished March 13, 2026

  You might recall one of the most horrific accidents in our nation’s history. Though it happened in the 1970s we still feel its implications today. What had the potential to be an epic tragedy spun into one of the biggest successes in the...

Amy (left) and Nancy today. Nancy (left) and Amy dressed for Halloween in 1980.

Are you good at friendship?

Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished March 3, 2026

  Last month, “Saturday Night Live” great Amy Poehler won the first ever Golden Globe Award in the podcasting category. On her show, “Good Hang,” she chats it up with her Hollywood friends. The June 2025 episode with Poehler’s former...

Sweatpants, soup and soul: Welcome to Haimish Girl Winter

Sweatpants, soup and soul: Welcome to Haimish Girl Winter

Amy Fenster BrownPublished February 16, 2026

The Yiddish word haimish means cozy, homey, comfortable. It’s an adjective describing a noun, giving more information about a person, place or thing.  The word inspires a great approach to this cold, gloomy season. You’ve heard of Hot Girl Summer....

Should we finish strong or give up and eat dip for dinner? A guide.

Should we finish strong or give up and eat dip for dinner? A guide.

Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished December 9, 2025

  This is it you guys, we’re in the home stretch of 2025. How should we wrap it up? Do we do our very best at everything to finish the year strong? Or do we sit back and coast by because we’re exhausted from the previous 11 months of being...

Talking to a teen? Play your face card, bro

Talking to a teen? Play your face card, bro

Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished October 12, 2025

Kids these days. I have no idea what they’re talking about. They have their own language, and I don’t get it. Do you? Help! Who can figure out this secret language? Other teens.  So, I turned to some of the best I could find and did some investigative...

Amy Fenster Brown writes that her  sons, Davis (left) and Leo are now in the same fraternity, making them double brothers — DosBros.

Nest, Empty

By Amy Fenster Brown, Special to the Jewish LightPublished September 3, 2025

It’s so quiet. My house is so very quiet now that both kids are young men away at college.  I’ve woken up every morning for the last couple of weeks thinking about the number of days left having them live in our house full time. It’s like a...

Chat up a stranger, it’s a mitzvah  — but please wash your hands

Chat up a stranger, it’s a mitzvah — but please wash your hands

By Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished August 12, 2025

True story. Recently I walked into a public restroom and saw a young mother with a little boy about 2 years old. He was rolling around on the ground — the bathroom floor! — looking under the occupied stall. I asked whether they were in line, and the...

You’re perfect, but also… someone can’t stand you

You’re perfect, but also… someone can’t stand you

Amy Fenster BrownPublished June 18, 2025

I’ve got good news and bad news. Good news first.  Ed Sheeran says you’re perfect. Aretha Franklin thinks you’re wonderful. Billy Joel loves you just the way you are.  The bad news – someone out there disagrees. Don’t be paranoid, we’re...

Why this season’s biggest cleanup might start inside you

Why this season’s biggest cleanup might start inside you

By Amy Fenster Brown, Special To The Jewish LightPublished April 21, 2025

Weird weather and its accompanying annoying allergies. It’s time to do some spring cleaning. Not just in your house, but also in your soul. There’s a lot of heavy stuff built up in there, and this is your chance to clean it out and start fresh.  In...

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