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St. Louis Jewish Light

A nonprofit, independent news source to inform, inspire, educate and connect the St. Louis Jewish community.

St. Louis Jewish Light

A nonprofit, independent news source to inform, inspire, educate and connect the St. Louis Jewish community.

St. Louis Jewish Light

Scott Goldman

A bar mitzvah 50 years in the making

By David Baugher, Special to the Jewish LightPublished July 16, 2014

On a recent Shabbat morning, the sanctuary at Central Reform Congregation is bathed in sunlight and alive with music and dance. Independence Day was the day before, but the festivities aren’t in honor of the July Fourth weekend. Instead, as the ruckus...

Shoshana Williams says her bat mitzvah project with Challenger baseball (left) has been a 'springboard' for her involvement in other charities.

Mitzvah project for life?

Louisa Goldman Freshman, MICDS High SchoolPublished November 13, 2013

For many Jewish pre-teens, the most daunting aspect of their bar/bat mitzvah is the idea of a mitzvah project, or an act of charity that betters the community. After it is successfully completed, numerous experience a sense of fulfillment, and promise...

Rabbi strives to keep ‘mitzvah’ in bar/bat mitzvah

By David Baugher, Special to the Jewish LightPublished September 25, 2013

It is among the best-known Jewish traditions, one that often sees parents and children alike preparing for months. But Rabbi Ze’ev Smason knows the ceremony marking Jewish adulthood can come with a price.“Unless inspiration is nourished, even those...

Rabbi Bradley Solmsen

Rabbi offers three questions to ponder for a bar or bat mitzvah in 2013

Rabbi Bradley Solmsen, JNS.orgPublished June 5, 2013

Mazel Tov on your upcoming simcha! It’s never too early to start thinking about your bar or bat mitzvah, and I advise you to approach this important rite of passage not as a sort of graduation ceremony, but as a meaningful transition towards Jewish...

Merely opulent or way overboard? Marking a rite of passage in high style

By Gil Shefler, JTAPublished June 5, 2013

NEW YORK — Dressed in a black-and-white tuxedo and surrounded by a  Secret Service detail, former President Bill Clinton greeted well-wishers at a bar mitzvah held at an upscale hotel in Los Angeles, shaking hands with guests and patiently posing for...

Wasserman Bar Mitzvah

How to attend a bar mitzvah as an adult

By Leo Margul, JNS.orgPublished June 5, 2013

As young people, bar and bat mitzvah parties helped us build character: Awkward social interactions, quiet slow-dances where you desperately try not to make eye contact, and condescending head-pats from adults and kids taller than us. Now that we’re...

Pultman Bar Mitzvah

Live & Learn

Published June 5, 2013

Caleb Micah PultmanParents: Andy and Mimi PultmanCongregation: B’nai AmoonaDate of bar/bat Mitzvah: May 26, 2012 Location of reception: J. Bucks Restaurant Downtown Favorite memory?First, Caleb has a wonderful work ethic and took very seriously his...

Blake Berg

Beach blanket bar mitzvah: Taking the theme to the extreme

By SUSAN FADEM, Special to the Jewish LightPublished June 5, 2013

With his mom’s track record, Blake Berg figured he would enjoy himself. What the 13-year-old did not anticipate was having “the best time of my life.”For older sister Madison’s bat mitzvah two years ago, mom Tracy Berg was inspired by her daughter’s...

Buck the trend and put the congregation on the b’nai mitzvah guest list

By Edmon J. Rodman, JTAPublished June 5, 2013

LOS ANGELES — More and more families planning bar and bat mitzvahs are taking the advice of Jeffrey Salkin, author of “Putting God on the Guest List,” by making sure to incorporate spiritual elements into their celebrations.But are we re-examining...

Jordana Horn

How my brother’s bar mitzvah taught me about the true meaning of joy

By Jordana Horn, JTAPublished June 5, 2013

NEW YORK — In 3½ all-too-brief years, I’ll be sitting in a synagogue pew watching my oldest son become a bar mitzvah. This milestone event will mean several things.It will mean that my children will have commenced our collective familial descent...

 

New teen trend: ‘Faux Mitzvahs’

By Sarah Cohen, John Burroughs High SchoolPublished March 19, 2012

The social lives of both Jewish and non-Jewish seventh graders expand tremendously as they are invited to classmates’ bar and bat mitzvahs. However, recently these students’ social calendars have begun to overflow as their non-Jewish classmates throw...

Oscar is a Jewish name

By Ellen Futterman, EditorPublished January 25, 2012

B'nai mitzvah mitzvah When Central Reform Congregation members Michael Getty and Brian Vetruba decided to become b'nai mitzvah together, the couple wanted a mitzvah project that was not only meaningful to them but also beneficial to the entire St. Louis...

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