Jewish connections desperately needed
Published February 8, 2013
When I was new to the position of chaplain I once pulled a Jewish resident out of Catholic Mass. I was assured, however, that she had not received communion! I calmly explained to an activity director that if the resident knew where she was, she would be aghast! The well-meaning employee retorted, “But she likes it!” The activity director could not comprehend why I found this so disturbing. In addition, I was in an area of West County where many Jewish residents resided.
This was not an isolated incident. I am going to a facility next week where I heard the priest is giving a Jewish resident communion. I have met her before and know she is extremely confused. Sometimes I believe residents respond to the simple kindness of human beings. Others are thrilled to be a part of an activity.
I know of another resident, also in West County, who has spoken to me on numerous times. He had a bar mitzvah, and like many people, drifted away from his faith. Another resident told me she heard this man may convert out of Judaism.
While I have made pleas for volunteers before, I am once again asking the Jewish community to be a more active and visible presence on skilled and assisted living facilities. Go with a group from synagogue and help during BINGO. Go and conduct a simple Shabbat service with candles, kiddish and challah. Read Biblical passages. Be a Jewish presence.